01-22-2018, 01:54 AM
(01-21-2018, 11:16 AM)Justice1 Wrote: RM,Thanks,I should be in counseling,I've started it a few times and then not followed through,thinking,I guess telling them the truth would make me seem weak?idk,but I hear you and I'm pretty fed up with having this sort of dark cloud following me around all the time,,it really seems to invite those same personality types into my life..and I do not want that anymore.Coffee,sorry about the break up,,I broke up with a man after 6 yrs a year ago and am just now getting past it and moving on..It's tough but it happens..marriage,,,,well I've done that a few times and I have some awsome kids but it's not a requirement in life,,alot of people do not choose to marry these days but there are plenty who do want marriage also and give it a bit of time to process all of this and you'll find love again.In the mean time work on yourself..it's worth it to take care of you and your more attractive to others when your content with you,it seems that way anyway,,I'm glad someone posted this thread.Alot of interesting stories for sure..
YW, Justice. Some emotional problems do not respond well to cognitive therapy and some do. The type that you are recounting generally does respond well. I know what you mean about being followed by the dark cloud and would love to see you have a break through and get rid of it. Its a process, though...even if you end up working through it on your own. I think that a counselor, if they are a good one, just steers you in the right direction and makes the process quicker and deeper. I almost didn't start this thread because I thought that people would not respond to it. I am so glad that its bringing out some of these issues among the members. RM